tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7160275.post111918811286446020..comments2024-01-12T08:36:47.249-05:00Comments on My UnKnown Blog: Tying up loose endsJoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16093346608054508762noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7160275.post-1119206634246641202005-06-19T14:43:00.000-04:002005-06-19T14:43:00.000-04:00Yes, I'm sure. I know the basics of the "Mars/Ven...Yes, I'm sure. I know the basics of the "Mars/Venus" thing.<BR/><BR/>And it is true that she is also not quite the one for me. On paper she looked near ideal; Asian, Techie, has children... But we just weren't a match where it counts.<BR/><BR/>My track record with women isn't isn't anything to write home about, though. Every longterm relationship I've been in has crashed and burned. I could be sabotaging myself, but that would be a topic for an entire post. Hmmm...Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093346608054508762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7160275.post-1119196532648551462005-06-19T11:55:00.000-04:002005-06-19T11:55:00.000-04:00Are you sure your lady friend was actually asking ...Are you sure your lady friend was actually asking for advice (even if she flat out asked)? <BR/><BR/>Men tend to want to fix things. When women approach men with problems, the first things out of the guys' mouths are usually suggestions on how to fix the problems. Often, women who do this are actually just trying to make a connection with someone who will sympathize with them. This isn't always the case, and I'll be ding damned if I can tell a "help me fix this" from a "lend me a sympathetic ear" issue, but it's something to think about.<BR/><BR/>As for you not being the right guy for her... You've already figured this out I'm sure, but she may not be the right woman for you. You have needs that need to be taken care of just like she does. It's not always you being wrong for everyone else. The reverse can be just as true.erathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05828527582559217461noreply@blogger.com